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Monday, September 24, 2007

I must not impose my standards upon others because i know that's one thing i dislike about people. I need to keep an open mind, know and remind myself constantly that everyone is weak and strong in different areas, have faith that my abilities will never reach its limits, take to heart that as time passes and slowly my worst sides develope, something better and more meaningful could have been blossoming at that very same time and i would have been a much better person. I shall remember that everyone has their weaknesses but also understand that we are born with a threshold for tolerating weaknesses.

I shall not become a person i dislike,
for if anyone is to dislike me, it is not to be myself.

I realise that the difference between intelligent people and unintelligent people, optimistic people and pessimistic people, are how they cope with their mistakes and how well they handle criticism.. not how well they do in school or how happy they sound on the surface.

I also realise that as we strive to become these people we do things that are stupid and.. well, stupid. and so, we should always try to forgive people for we give them the benefit of the doubt that they are in the process of trial and error. however, i have also discovered that some people just do not try or make a hobby out of pretending not to care for these qualities when deep down inside they really do.

I think not caring is not admirable, but neither is being overly bothered.
I also think that you do not have to be influenced into acting anyway just because anyone else is going to admire you for it.
Do it because you will like yourself alot better, because you will be a better person, because you will benefit yourself, because you will live your life to the fullest.
Like it or not, the world is really about you-only when you want to be good, will you be able to do good to others. only when you are understanding and encompassing, do people feel comfortable around you and benefit from your company.
Only when you care about yourself can you care about others.

10:30 PM